Archive for November, 2009

Last week, we celebrated Mae Mae and the Bub’s birthdays.  I had grand visions of taking them each out for perfect photo sessions.  Immediately, Mae Mae refused.  But, I thought for sure if I took the Bub out, he would have fun exploring and would let me get a few pictures.  Here is the best one that I got:

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Not good.  He was just cold and mad and would not even considering cooperating for the pictures.  Obviously, we will have to try again :)

But, we did go to the zoo the day before Thanksgiving.   The Hogle Zoo offers a free day the last Wednesday of every winter month.  We packed some snacks, bundled up, and headed out.  We got there just in time to watch the zookeepers wade through the lake to catch the pelicans.  Mae Mae was very impressed!

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We all enjoyed the monkey house and the reptile house.

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My favorite animal was the baby elephant, Zuri.  Seriously.  Could she be any cuter?

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I love the zoo.  It must stem from my childhood.  My Grandma is an avid zoo supporter.  She always got the grand pass that allowed her children and grandchildren to go with her.  She could even talk to the parrots and get them to talk back!  I still think that is pretty amazing.

Well, first.  Happy Belated Thanksgiving.  We had such a nice dinner at Tressa’s house.  Then, over to visit BJ’s family for pie that evening.  I love good food, so naturally Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays.  Plus, it is the official start of the Christmas season.  We have had our Christmas decorations up and have been listening to Christmas music for two weeks.  But, now we can open the shutters and turn up the Christmas music without the neighbors thinking we are crazy :)   When BJ took the girls to the library last week, they checked out several books about the pilgrims.  I read them the stories about the long journey across the ocean.  About the pilgrims struggles as they worked to settle an untamed wilderness.  Through sickness and hunger and cold, they perservered.  Then, more than a year after their arrival in America, they were able to successfully gather in a harvest.  With gratitude and recognition of their dependence on the Lord, they planned a celebration to offer thanks.  What a wonderful tradition Thanksgiving has become!  I AM SO THANKFUL!

Well, another tradition in our family is Black Friday shopping.  This year, we took it to a whole new level.   One of the malls here opened at 9:00 p.m. on Thanksgiving night!  So, Letia, Jennifer, Tressa, Becca and I shopped from 9:00 pm-1:30 am.  Then, we came home for a short nap before heading out again at 3:45 this morning!  We are dedicated shoppers! (or maybe a little crazy).   I always hear people say that they would never want to fight the crowds and would not even consider going out the day after Thanksgiving.  Then, there are those who dread it, but go out just to get the deal that is too good to pass up.  I actually really like going out on Black Friday.  I even like the chaos (as long as the lines move quickly).  That is part of the fun.  There is an energy.  An excitement.  It probably helps that I try to have most of my Christmas shopping done by September, so I don’t often have “must find” purchases on my list.  I can just relax and enjoy the experience of it all.  Then, if I score on some of the deals, that is just a bonus.  I am officially 100% done Christmas shopping.

Even after all that fun, I still have the weekend to look forward to.  Tomorrow: craft fair then chorizo & eggs dinner at my Grandparents house.  Sunday:  Temple Square Concert and Charai & Bri arrive!  I LOVE THE HOLIDAYS!

And now… a sneak peek for Jayme.  We did their session at Memory Grove Garden on Tuesday afternoon.  It was c-c-cold!  I told the girls that their job was to do their best to not look like they were freezing.  And, considering the temperature, that was a tough job.  But, they did awesome!  We had so much fun and got some amazing pictures too :)   Here are a few of my favorites:

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And, since I couldn’t pick a favorite from this series, I am sharing them all:

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I’m back.  Where have I been?  Well, not on my computer because it was not functional.  The hard drive failed.  Thankfully, all files were backed up/recoverable.  So, nothing was lost.  However, we still had to purchase a new hard drive, re-install all of our programs, etc.  Also within the past couple of weeks, BJ’s computer screen stopped working and our projector died.  His computer has been a long standing joke around our house.   It has been “about to die” for over a year.  In fact, last Thanksgiving, he built a custom computer to replace it, but then his boss wanted to buy the system from him.  So, he sold it.  Since that time, he has “built” several systems by adding all the necessary components to his online shopping cart, but then never actually ordered the components.  You see…BJ gets buyers remorse before, during and after any significant transaction.  So, he pretty much just never spends any money.  For a long time, his laptop screen was disconnected from his laptop, propped up on an easel, and had at least 15 vertical lines permanently displayed across the screen.  When the screen finally gave out, he still used his computer by connecting it to the projector and viewing the “screen” on the wall.  Well, now the projector died.  So, maybe it is time to break down and click “order now” on that shopping cart full of computer components that you know is saved in cyberspace.  As much as I value computers and rely on them, it annoys me to pay for upkeep and replacement.  It is kind of like paying to fix your car.  Blah.

Anyways,  I have been thinking about homeschooling lately.  It started when Holly and Sarah decided to start homeschooling.  But since then, I have been reading, studying, discussing, considering, praying, etc.  I am still not totally sure how I feel about it yet.  But, I am thinking about it.  It is a possibility.  For now, I will share a quote I found:

“It is, in fact, nothing short of a miracle that the modern methods of instruction have not yet entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry; for this delicate little plant, aside from stimulation, stands mainly in need of freedom; without this it goes to wrack and ruin without fail.  It is a very grave mistake to think that the enjoyment of seeing and searching can be promoted by means of coercion and a sense of duty.  To the contrary, I believe that it would be possible to rob even a healthy beast of prey of its voraciousness, if it were possible, with the aid of a whip, to force the beast to devour continuously, even when not hungry, especially if the food, handed out under such coercion, were to be selected accordingly.”
-Albert Einstein

Interesting, right?  That makes sense to me.  Children are naturally curious.  They need freedom to learn what they want to know.  To study what interests them.  To move ahead when they have mastered a concept….

Anyways, for now I will share a picture from a few weeks ago.  This is BJ’s cute cousin and her husband.  They are expecting their first baby boy.  It makes me feel sentimental.  My baby boy turned 2 last week.  He is so fun and funny and snuggly and happy.  I love the stage he is in right now.  But, I do miss those precious newborn days.  Even though he was so sad.  I just wish I could go back and hold him again.  I remember my Mom telling me that heaven would be holding her babies again.  Now that I am a mother, I agree.  That would be heaven.web 1

“While each person can learn to recognize the whisperings of the Spirit, that learning process can be facilitated as others help us understand about the Holy Ghost, share their personal testimonies, and provide an environment where the Spirit can be felt.”

When I read her talk, I automatically thought of my children.  In a world that is increasingly more evil, I want them to be able to recognize the promptings of the Spirit in their lives.  Sister Matsumori gives three ideas that we can implement to help others recognize these promptings.

1.  Understanding the Doctrine

Teach the doctrine of the Holy Ghost.  Teach that “the right to the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost comes as members are given that gift by the laying on of hands by those who have the proper authority.”  Further, we must live worthy of the Spirit.  President Eyring described the influence of the Holy Ghost as “peace, hope, and joy.”

2.  Share Personal Testimony

Share testimony regarding the influence of the Holy Ghost, sharing personal experiences.

3.  Provide and Environment Where the Spirit Can Be Felt

“The challenge for each of us is in providing an environment where the Spirit can be felt daily in our homes and weekly at church.  One reason we are encouraged to pray and read the scriptures every single day is that both of these activities invite the Spirit into our homes and into the lives of our family members.”  She then goes on to speak of the importance of quiet pondering.  She said, “Allow [the] still, small voice an opportunity to provide personal revelation and to whisper sweet guidance, reassurance, and comfort to us.”

“When we come to understand the whisperings of the Spirit we will be able to hear Him teach us ‘the peaceable things of the kindgom’ and ‘all things what we should do.’  We will recognize answers to our prayers and know how to live the gospel more fully each day.  We will be guided and protected.”

Today, we had a special stake meeting where Bishop H. David Burton, the presiding Bishop of the church addressed us.  I was home with sick kids, but BJ went and took notes to share with me when he got home.  He said that an appalling percentage of teens, ages 12-18, reported that their parents were the LEAST significant influence in their lives.  That is just scary!  My kids are growing up so fast!  Recently, I have been feeling the need to create stronger family bonds, to increase the influence of family.  There are so many important things we need to teach our children, but one of the most important things we can teach them is how to recognize and follow the promptings of the Spirit.

I had an outdoor session scheduled for today but considering the dreary, overcast skies and the mounds of snow whirling around, we decided to reschedule.  Not sure yet if we will try to wait until the weather clears or if we will opt for an indoor session.  That’s right!  My new studio lighting will arrive this week and I am so excited for the flexibility it will offer me.  Wahoo!

So, since I was unexpectedly home this afternoon, Bj decided to take the girls out sledding.  For the first time.  Ever!  Well, the older girls.  The Foof is still out of commission with an ear infection.  She was so sad to miss out on the fun, but even more sad that Daddy was leaving her.  As he was pulling out of the driveway, she was crying to me saying, “I don’t want Daddy to go.  He is so nice to me!”  Admittedly, he is the best caretaker when people are sick in this house.

Anyways, a few pictures for today….  This little sweetie had the brightest, happiest smile.  I spent half the session just laughing with her.  I loved her energy and enthusiasm!

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Now, off for movie night in the basement with BJ.  Goodnight!

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So…what are my plans for today?  Cleaning, laundry, dishes, organizing.  I feel like things have kind of gotten out of control lately.  Part of my problem is that I have been so exhausted.  I went to sleep at 6:45 last night!  Because the Bub has been so sick, he has been waking me up several times a night, then waking up for the day around 5:45 and hitting me/yelling at me until I get out of bed too.  He has just not been happy.   I am ready for everyone to be well again so we can regain some sense of normalcy around here!

So…update on what I actually accomplished today.   Nothing.  I held the Bub while he cried.  I held the Bub while he ate.  I held the Bub while he yelled.  I held the Bub while he watched a movie.  I held the Bub while he screamed.    Etc.  Etc.  Etc.  That pretty much consumed my entire day.   But, dinner is in the oven.  Daddy is helping with spelling homework.  Tomorrow is a new day and it’s all good.

I just got home from running errands…delivering prints, the bank, the library, and Costco.

First, if you happen to be heading out toward Town Center today, “Over the Top Cookies” is celebrating their anniversary with free milk and cookies for everyone.  It was such a fun treat and very yummy.  The kids thought it was the BEST!  The only hard thing was deciding which type of cookie to choose.  They all looked so yummy!  We will definitely have to go back.

Next stop: Costco.  While there, I stopped to watch a presentation for the VitaMix blender.  Normally, I am not one to be easily swayed demonstrations because I am pretty skeptical by nature, but after watching for a few minutes and tasting some of the recipes, I actually really want this blender!  Have you seen it?  The guy made tortilla soup using fresh vegatables, hot water, beans, corn and a few tortilla chips.  Start to finish…3 minutes tops!  And it was super yummy!

We make “blender drink” several times a week in our house.  In our regular blender, we have to stop regularly to open the lid and stir it around.   Plus, no matter how long we blend, we can never seem to get the almonds, carrots and blueberries to completely puree.  So, I am filing this away on the wishlist for someday.  In the meantime, I will share our favorite blender drink recipe for all to enjoy:

8 almonds

1 heaping handful of baby spinach

8-10 frozen strawberries

1 handful of frozen blueberries

1 banana

6 small baby carrots

1/2 c. orange juice

Directions:  Place almonds in blender and blend until powdery.  Add spinach, strawberries, blueberries, banana, carrots and orange juice.  Fill blender with water until it almost covers all the ingredients.  Blend until smooth.

You may want to start with less spinach until your kids know they love it and then gradually add more.  Otherwise, the green color may turn them off.   My kids love this drink and beg me to make it several times a week.  Recently, Missy learned how to make it, which I totally appreciate.   If you don’t have a few of the ingredients, you can make it without.  You can also add other favorites (frozen peaches, berries, etc) if you desire.  If you want it to be a little sweeter, just add more orange juice concentrate.

And now for a few pictures…I just delivered prints from this session today!

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I received my Conference Ensign Edition in the mail yesterday and am looking forward to studying the words of the prophets.

After the official welcome by President Monson, Elder Scott spoke about how we can acquire spiritual guidance in our lives. He began his talk by addressing the ever-changing conditions in the world.  He states: “Personally, I rejoice in that reality because it creates a condition where we, of necessity, are more dependent upon the Spirit to guide us through the vicissitudes of life.  Therefore, we are led to seek personal inspiration in life’s important decisions.”  He talked about the importance of prayer.  He said, “Father in Heaven knew that you would face challenges and be required to make some decisions that would be beyond your own ability to decide correctly.  In His plan of happiness, He included a provision for you to receive help with such challenges and decisions during your mortal life,  That assistance will come to you through the Holy Ghost as spiritual guidance.  It is a power, beyond your own capability, that a loving Heavenly Father wants you to use consistently for your peace and happiness.”  It is not always easy to recognize how the Spirit speaks to your soul.  But, we must learn, through divine help how to discern the promptings of the Holy Ghost.  “[Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ] know that essential personal growth will come as you struggle to learn how to be led by the Spirit.”  We learn by doing.  As we consistently strive to DO His will and follow what we consider to be promptings, we will gain a greater understanding and confidence in those impressions.  Elder Scott’s next statement is so powerful to me: “Spirituality yields two fruits.  The first is the inspiration to know what to do.  The second is power, or the capacity to do it.”  He also encouraged us to respond to, record, and apply the promptings of the Spirit.

Elder Scott then addressed how our emotions or desires can overcome the whisperings of the Spirit.  He said, “The inspiring influence of the Holy Spirit can be overcome or masked by strong emotions, such as anger, hate, passion, fearor pride.  When such influences are present, it is like trying to savor the delicate flavor of a grape while eating a jalepeno pepper.  Both flavors are present, but one completely overpowers the other.  In like manner, strong emotions overcome the delicate promptings of the Holy Spirit.”  Sometimes it is so hard to put our emotions and concerns aside and really seek the will of the Lord!

He warns: “Satan is extremely good at blocking spiritual communication by inducing individuals, through temptation, to violate the laws upon which spiritual communication is founded.”  He speaks of how sin deadens our ability to receive inspiration.

Finally, Elder Scott encourages us to “[h]ave patience as you are perfecting your ability to be led by the Spirit.  By careful practice, through the application of correct principles, and by being sensitive to the feelings that come, you will gain spiritual guideance.”

He closed with his testimony: “I bear witness that the Lord, through the Holy Ghost, can speak to your mind and heart….  I bear solemn witness that as you pray with all the fervor of your soul with humility and gratitude, you cn learn to be consistently guided by the Holy Spirit in all aspects of your life.  I have confirmed the truthfulness of that principle in the crucible of my own life.  I testify that you can personally learn to master the principles of being guided by the Spirit.  That way, the Savior can guide you to resolve challenges of life and enjoy great peace and happiness.”

Okay…Happy Sunday!

Fashion Model in Training…

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Abigail was super excited to get her pictures taken.   This little cutie  is 100% spunk and personality!

Lounging

November 5, 2009

I made a pact with myself that I would update my blog at least every other day.  Well, only one hour left today.  I should go up the two flights of stairs, edit a few images, then proceed to post them on my blog, facebook, various photography blogs, etc.  But, I am so happy lounging in the basement that I can’t bring myself to move.  So, instead, I thought I would tell you all about the most amazingly comfortable pants you could ever want to own: The Shade Lounge Pant.

shade lounge pantsAbout a year ago, I was getting ready for bed and put on my cute red sweats (is that an oxymoron?).  BJ, who does not normally notice what I wear (or at least he doesn’t normally comment on my clothing), told me that my “cute red sweats” were not his favorite.  What?  I have to look good even when I’m sleeping?  So, I figured I should try to find some pajama pants that were a bit less unattractive.

Then…on Black Friday (yes I go out on that day EVERY YEAR…I love it!), we stopped in at the Shade store.  Everything in the store was an additional 20% off.  I tried them on.  I loved them.  I bought two pairs.  Then, after I got home and actually wore them, I ordered another pair.   I had no idea how much I would love these pants.  They are seriously the most comfortable thing I have EVER worn.  And…they are pretty cute, if  I do say so myself.  Now, I can be cute while I’m sleeping.  But don’t be surprised if you see me cleaning in them.  Or shopping. Or  going to the library.   Or….  (You get the idea).   Tressa, Holly and Letia were with me that day and can probably remember me saying that I didn’t need any of the coordinating zip-up hoodies because I did not intend to wear them out.  They were going to strictly be pajama pants.  Well, I was wrong.  I do so like shade pants you see, that I will wear them here and there.  Yes!  I will wear them everywhere! (credit to Dr. Seuss)

It is probably only the fact that I have a slight obsession for fabulous jeans that keeps me from wearing these pants all day every day.  But, three pairs is clearly not enough considering that I do wear them for at least 10 hours a day!  So, I’ve been waiting all summer, hoping that Shade would have them again this winter.  And…they do!  I will be buying another pair (or two) on Black Friday this year.  So, go ahead and order some.  Oh…and if the sizing is the same as last year,  you will want to buy them a size or two smaller than you would think.  Okay…happy shopping!  You can thank me later.  So can your husband.

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